You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. Dating is a tricky game. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. If you decide to stay. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. This is something I see on an everyday basis. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy.
I was born and raised in the LDS faith. Now I look at his job and his schedule and his tiredness as a part of both of our lives, rather than something that is just his life that I have to deal with. It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. While I admire his dedication, his focus and intelligence, it has been extremely hard on me. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. There are over promises in the Bible. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church.
Or get them met elsewhere. I feel for you. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. Heck his sleeps best with me on his chest. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. I guess I was just hoping there was way for it to work. Learned by me in time and tears. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities.
My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother. Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters. Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. My actual birthday is Monday and he'll be working all day.