If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. It should be our time with boys. Does he come home on time after work. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. I have been married for 2 years now and I'm concerned that if we dont work something out soon, it will only get worse as he dives into his profession even further. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. Much of it rang true back when my spouse was in med school, internship and residency. Do you know anyone working in medicine or in the healthcare field. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. I am giving him all of those things. Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. The church is very important to her. Some days there is so much pain that I can barely type. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.
All I can do is have Faith in Him. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. Let her go right now then. The envy of all of our friends. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest.
I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. I get a lot of satisfaction out of being a paramedic and my business is a long time dream. I overheard her once saying, "being married to a doctor isn't what you think it is" and this is what I think she was referring to. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. I thought she would grow out of it. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. The only thing they value it's themselves and their career.